This time of year, my Facebook feed becomes overtaken by an elf. The “Elf on the Shelf” has gained immense popularity the last few years. Mothers everywhere are strategically placing this little guy (or girl) in mischievous situations each and every night from Thanksgiving until Christmas. Yet just as sure as my Facebook feed will be filled with Elves in elaborate setups, there will be the inevitable posts and articles about why certain moms will NOT partake. Even among our contributors, we are divided. Nearly all of us have different outlooks on the Elf on the Shelf.
Which Elf Mom describes you best?
The Good Intentions Elf Mom:
This year will be different, she says. The Elf will come out on time and get into something different each evening. By day four, she’s done. Her Elf spends the rest of his days in the Christmas tree that she also vowed to keep alive past December 15 this year. That’s not going so well either. She has to come up with a better explanation than “Sorry, kids, the elf is in a coma” when her kids question why the Elf isn’t moving anymore.
The Inappropriate Elf Mom:
This mom literally bought an Elf just to enter a contest. A contest, hosted by Jill from Baby Rabies, where you pose your elf in rather adult situations in hopes of winning a prize. This mom’s children likely don’t even know about the Elf or what he’s supposed to do. The kids only know that mommy giggles like a 12-year-old boy when she discusses the Elf. We call this, “Job Security Elf.” She needs to be sure more and more kids are added to the family so she can stick around, and she has quite a nefarious way to ensure this happens.
The Overachiever Elf Mom:
As soon as the Halloween decorations come down, she begins scouring Pinterest for creative ideas. Marshmallow bubble baths and cheerio “donuts,” anyone? Not only that, she is clever enough to come up with ideas that other overachieving Elf moms will want to copy. She has lists from each year so as to not repeat his antics. She spends more time cleaning up after the elf than she does her kids, and the Elf may or may not also have a detailed calendar of activities planned for December. Her children relish in this tradition, but let’s be honest: she does it more for herself than the kids. She may even have a secret crush on the Elf. And you better believe the Elf has a name. And birth certificate.
The Bare Minimum Elf Mom:
She reads the book to her kids and moves the Elf around the house each night, but she doesn’t get too involved with him. It’s just not that big of a deal to her, or her kids. This year, she may even spring for the DVD, but probably not. She’s the easy peasy kind of mom. The kids’ behavior is enough for her without having to add Elf antics to the mix.
The Elf is a Bribe Mom:
This mom is always looking for ways to use traditions to her advantage. She gets the Elf. She plays the game, but she has an ulterior motive. Her tactic is to utilize the tradition to gain good behavior from her children. “The Elf is watching!” she exclaims as her kids get into something they shouldn’t. This mom’s Elf has super powers like watching the kids at school and being able to take away all of their favorite toys.
The What the Elf Mom:
This mom has not even heard of The Elf on the Shelf, much less purchased one or come up with any schemes for him. Clearly, that means this mom doesn’t spend any time on the internet between Halloween and Christmas. She will hear about him at some point, though, because he’s EVERYWHERE. I wonder what type of Elf mom she’ll be when she’s finally confronted with the tradition.
The Elf Hater Mom:
Not only does she refuse to participate in this tradition, but she loathes it and may openly mock the Overachiever Elf Mom (in a loving way, of course!). This mom just has too much other stuff going on to add yet another time suck to her life. She will not bow down to a plush doll in the name of holiday spirit. In fact, the only spirit she’s interested in is of the alcoholic variety. Pass the egg nog, please.